Coalie is correct though.
you decided to attack superfly after he did some regular spy ops on your countries.
Then, after YOU said that you were done having killed SF, Cathankins dumped missiles on further Mercs countries.

Mercs then decided, quite reasonably, that that was an act of war/griefing, and killed you.
Mercs allies also came to the party, because you hit their friends, and that's what pacted allies do.

You and Cathankins then came here complaining about bullying.
You and Cathankins then decided to hit Evo this set, because they haven't hit superfly
*although, Cathankins reasoning for this has suddenly changed to "because they are a coalition", although, still also because Superfly.

You've also, despite the record showing to the contrary, tried to claim that it's mercs fault, and that somehow, they're at fault for coming to Evo's aid.

Cathankins has also actively threatened to run Evo, Mercs, SoF and SoL off the server.

At this stage, you're basically only digging yourself deeper in the hole man.

The best thing you could do would be to admit you done messed up, apologise to evo, and look into some form of negotiations with them to extricate yourself.

None of this is dictating, to be clear, it's genuine, open and honest respectful advice. You're free to take it, or not, as you will.

EDIT: To add a touch more. Superfly did ops on Paradigm countries as well.
Ya know what I did? reached out to Mercs, and said "yo, can you please ask Superfly to knock it off?"
Funnily enough, the ops stopped.
It's almost like Diplomacy has an effect or something.