SO is this going to be used to land trade some, or is it going to be a bunch of whining when someone gets hit and retals?

Won't when then need to get rid of our clans policies amongst the coalition? Else I don't see the point.

If you grab me I get 150% L:L maybe if I grab you, you only get 1:1 or something?

It sounds like it could be interesting but there are a few flaws.

If you can't manage this stuff yourself, have a business oriented small software firm create the software for you.