cgr4, I'm guessing your previous experience playing this game was on the alliance server. There, players have made up their own rules to try to protect themselves from the retribution of those from whom they have stolen land. Here, you're on your own.
The question I would have.... if it is inappropriate somehow for this person to grab you back 12 days later, how was it appropriate for you to take land from him the first place?
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cgr4:
Im trying to figure out an appropriate response.
The appropriate response would be to realize that every player is fair game on this server, and that if you gain land by aggression, you may lose it by retaliation. From there, its up to you to decide whether you want to attempt to fight someone just for doing the same thing to you that you had already done to him (And yeah, I see you've already decided not to do that)